Songs, Songs, Songs

Wedding plans are well under way. The guest list has been made, the colors picked(they are perfect!!!), invitations chosen (they are fabulous), tuxes found (sexiest tux ever), and bride's maid dresses sort of decided (they are cute but I'm not getting the gut feeling with them yet). I found a stumbling block when it comes to choosing wedding songs. Farron and I don't have any "songs" and I'm just not sure how to go about finding the right ones. I'm not really a music listening girl myself and Farron's not really a love song listening guy so I guess we're both sort of in the dark on this topic. And the love songs I have looked at are all so cliche. I want something that feels right and represents us not all those crappy songs that say the same generalized crap "You're my everything", "We were meant to be", "My true love", etc...I mean we are getting married so all these things just go without saying...atleast that's how I feel.
Any song suggestiong would be greatly appreciated!!!!